Talk:BFB 12/@comment-34597123-20180703183609/@comment-34597123-20180703190953

Choosing Cake means that you value people who have high reputation, and tend to learn from them as much as you can. That's a good strategy. You also value people, who tend to be nice to you and who are free to talk to you. You also value authenticity, which is a good move. The flaw you have is that you might believe on some stereotypes or gossips, that you've heard. The advice is that you should always double check everyone's talking and always be rightful, and don't turn your back on people because you have heard gossips, the self-confidence is also low, and you should make it grow. You're doing good :)